hello

i run Featuring You. And Your Wonderful and Unique life - Sprinj.com and the biggest problem right now is that pages weigh in average 300kb which is way too much for me.

so i was wondering if there is any script out there who will load ressources like jpegs, png, javascripts, css like a few seconds after the html page is loaded, so that the user can see the page is coming and he can read something meanwhile all other ressources are loaded in the background

how to annoy users in one easy lesson!

show a page of text then move it around as other parts load up. It would be worse than nested tables without defined cell sizes.

Just optimise the images for size as much as possible, most other items will only download once and be cached so only the initial download will take longer, after that most things should be used from the browsers local cache.
The "home" page loaded in under 15secs for me (1M ADSL)