Ok had some luck it all looks fine now (well almost) but i now have the problem of it's not always in the center, it change as i change the screen res is there away to stop it changing so looking the same in most screen res.
Get rid of all that position:absolute and your site will center the way you want it to. All that positioning is simply NOT necessary, and is not a good way to go. Learn to use the normal document flow to your advantage, along with floats, and you'll be better off.
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