Can anyone tell me were i could get a music player for my web sites like the one on this page: http://www.brianwiltshire.net/heavyhookedup/media.html

Or any music player that will let me list the song in it and have some way of playing them all individually when clicked.

Or any player for my site

Check out http://www.tutorialized.com and search for MP3 flash tutorials.
They have a couple of really easy ones there.