Right now I'm trying to add a flash video entrance to my site. I have already converted my files to and swf and I have managed to embed the flash video using an html code.

Here are the problems I have and the stuff I need help with:
I want the video to have "enter" and "skip" buttons.
I also need to resize the flash video but not sure I can do that with Flash 8 or not(I want the video to take up about 75% of the screen)

Any help appreciated. I also might be way over my head since I really haven't seen any flash video entrances. But this site: http://www.b-dancers.jp/ sort of has the concept I'm trying to get it. But instead of having to enter the site to see the video, when you click on my site I want it to show the options.....then start playing or skip it.

Here is my website: http://taijijuny.frih.net

Flash is vector art - that means you can resize it to your heart's content and it will be fine.

Flash intro pages are horrible, you really shouldn't use them. No one wants to sit thru an intro, most people are going to hit SKIP anyway. In addition to that, flash intro page are VERY bad if you're at all concerned about the search engines.

I hope you didn't use the <embed> tag in your HTML, also very bad.