I want a menu system similar to they way http://www.spoono.com has. I don't know a lot of javascript, which they use for their menu, so I don't know how to do this. Note that when you click on a link (Some of this have them. Try the "Programming" link), not only does a submenu come up, but that link is different from the rest of them, to show which menu you're looking at. I'm not sure how to start this, so if anyone could help me out, I'd be very greatful.

Well I can't give you an exact example as to what you want.
Basically, the effect on the menu is CSS.
A simple one would be like

a.menu {
background-color: green; /* its not exactly green, just as a sample i'll put that */
border-style: solid;
border-width: 1px;
border-color: gray;
}
a.menu:hover {
border-width: 0px;
border-bottom-width: 2px;
border-color: green;
background-color: white;
}

and just set the class="menu" on the links. Like <a href="" class="menu">text</a>.

As far as the second row comes about, I can't tell you exactly how to make it right now. I tried looking for a tutorial but you could probably find something with more time. Basically they use the visibility attribute in CSS. Using Javascript they change the visibility for that row
So like if you make the menu row, just put a div tag like <div id="second_row" style="visibility: hidden;">Second Row</div>
And on the link for the second row do, <a href="" class="menu" onclick="second_row.visibility='visible'"> (the visibility might be true instead of visible, i don't remember)
Hope this helps, if not, I'm sure you can find plenty of tutorials online

Thanks for your response. I figured out how to do it.