Hi i am a total beginner and i want to have a music player with about 4 tracks in my site but to be honest i don't even now were to start if someone could please take the time to tell me how to do my own or to point my in the direction of a free player i could use and tell me how to embed it in to my web site i would be so grateful.

do a google seach for free mp3 player ....
I am sure you can find a flash free player

Good luck

Thanks i will have a look for a free flash player thanks.