Does anybody have or know where i can get a list of first or second names to stick into a mysql database for my lastest game!

Just do a google search, you can find huge lists of baby names.

For extra ease of use, I would get them one-to-a-line in a text file (one text file for each of the categories) then load them in with some PHP.

On a similar vein, if anyone needs a list of towns in the UK I have them (all of them I think).