Well, it's about time. Kandi, I hope you ignore this guy's comments, he thinks anyone who remotely disagrees with him hates Muslims, or Asians, or whatever else he is, so long as it feeds his complex of being oppressed. My usual response to people who act like jerks, then ask me if I'm drinkin' the Haterade for calling 'em on it, is simply, "No, I don't hate your group, I just think YOU'RE a jerk."

Back to the OP -- Kandi, I couldn't have said it better, either. I will say that those who continuously try to put the blame for such things on society completely miss the point. You teach a child responsibility from an early age. What good does it do to place blame once a child is sired, or someone is shot and killed? At that point responsibility kicks in and the kid's gotta take it. Perhaps a few parents ought to get a swift kick in the tail, but that's gotta happen long before blame can even be placed.

tim

Lemons -> Lemonade

If this kid just bangs out another two kids, which he could have done by age 16, he could be a grandfather by age 26. If each of his children bang out three more children(at the same age), he could have a family of 14 by age 29, 37 by age 42, and 118 by age 55. He could get them all fed and educated on tax dollars, and employ them in a family business of his own creation, thereby creating his own retirement plan.

Furthermore, if the cycle continued he could create an entire race of people with his DNA as the common thread (Israelites/Abraham?). His kid will be grown and out of the house by the time he hits age 31, leaving him to spend the money produced from his highest earning years on himself instead of being mired down with child rearing like so many of us are at that age.

Maybe this kid is the smartest person alive and has a sense of what it takes to get your name indelibly etched in to history books. He could be remembered long after the names Obama, Lincoln, and Hitler are long forgotten. Just a thought.

If I had a kid like at 90 right before I died would that make me a bad father?

It would make you a pervert since the mother of your baby would have to be about 50 years your junior.

I don't know about pervert, but he would be rich when it happened..

Originally Posted by cbwm

It would make you a pervert since the mother of your baby would have to be about 50 years your junior.

that means I need to wait another 30 years for her to even be born...

How can a 13 year old be a good father? He is still a kid and don't have any idea of the responsibilities of a father.

Originally Posted by blm2007

How can a 13 year old be a good father? He is still a kid and don't have any idea of the responsibilities of a father.

I totally agree. I don't think age is a sole qualifier if someone can be good or bad at doing something, but when society accepts that people are moulded by their parents or the state, and they develop skills throughout life, then how can someone at the beginning of the education chain be a good father? It is impossible because they have too much to learn about life.

Hes only a sperm donner until he can pay child support.

maybe he can ... but only if he is already responsible and mature enough to take good care of the child.

he already opened his eyes and see the reality of being an adult hood at an early age.

Hey,
i think he can't be a good father, because he can't manage his baby and wife properly, it may be financially or may be due to lack of proper care.

i dont think He could be a good father as he would not be able to give required things to his Child and May be He would Not Be able have for himself

DNA Tests Show 13-Year-Old Not Father of Baby Born to Girl, 15

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