Quick ? about search engines why when i search for back links my site does not show up but i get trafic and also i see the links in the search engines ? and what is good for a site that is only a few months old for daily Unique Visitors ?

the site is http://www.onsitetechsnet.com/blog/

Google only shows the backlinks that it deems to be most important. You can probably get a much more accurate idea of how many incoming links you have by using MSN Search.