Google is not updating my web site information, except for the site map links and the spider rate visit, non of the links, and Page analysis has been updated though I did several changes to the site and added several pages. Do you know if I need to do anything to let google reread the whole site?

Would you mind telling or PMing the site so I can take a look,

What do you mean google is not updating your website information
the public information or the ones on webmasters console ?

The one for webmasters. I added several pages to the site but the web site statistics and page analysis plus the internal and external links has never been updated since google added me to their search engine. My site is:
www.riveroakslimo.com

Again its not clear what exactly you mean,

google.com/webmasters takes some time to actually show you the internal and external links even though it might show some links on the public side (link:yoursite.com)
As long as there is data showing everywhere else you are fine.

For example take a look at the statistics, diagnostic and sitemaps should have some information indicating that google knows something about your site. Do you have data in any of these ?

(I still have not seen any inbound link to my 2 month old website, even though I know I have about 100)

Really
I think it is a problem in google that he takes some tme for updating the Backlinks.So when Google will update his backlink then really all links will show.

Its not really a problem (technical I mean)
it just probably takes a lot of computer power to update each user's profile from their general index (database) so they prefer to do it just once in a while.

The Google Webmaster Tools console is not exactly known for accuracy at the best of times. According to it, I've only received visits under 10 keywords and phrases to my blog in the past 7 days; i've had more than 10 different phrases related to CSS alone than that.

What do your site stats say? Are you getting traffic to those pages? Is that traffic seemingly coming from Google (under keywords/phrases exclusive to those pages?) Is your traffic rising? Is it going down?