Ime gonna go dedicated soon for my site , and i was wondering if sum1 could help me get it running because i have never used a dedicated server b4 and itz un-managed.

If you had never managed a dedicated server and are short of server managing skills, it is better for you to buy a managed dedicated server first.

Unmanaged dedicated server for an unskilled person! You may want to look in to those support companies. There are a few good, cheap ones like: platinumservermanagement.com

I agree, unless you are willing to pay someone to help you, I would go with a managed server at first.

You can try Platinumservermanagement.com for third party management or just check around for managed hosting providers. Many will do this for a addon fee.

My advice is for you to evaluate the cost of a managed server vs an add on server admin outside.

If the cost of the managed dedicated server is more or less the same as the cost of an unmanaged server + cost of server admins like platinumservermanagement (about $30 a month), then I would advise you to go with the managed server from your provider. If the cost of the managed server is much higher, go with unmanaged and get the services of platinumservermanagement.com.

Hope this helps.