Whats a good shared host that would support dating sites, and that allow multiple sites on one account. I was with host gator for the longest time until they suspended my account and told me I needed a dedicated server. My sites grew to having almost 3500 members in total just fine on their shared environment. (this was over a period of a couple years). and now on their dedicated box, I am not experiencing very much growth which is why I want to downgrade. I dont think a dedicated box is justified. What is a good host that you recommend for this?

What are the requirements for your dating site. What kind of offer you are looking for?

If you are looking for a long term perspective then VPS or a Dedicated server is the best suited in this regards. VPS server is almost same as dedicated server which is also fully managed and also suits to your requirements. The rates are also cheaper than a dedicated box. So, In this case if you go for a VPS you will get enough memory and bandwidth to use and there will be no issue of downgrading and upgrading in future.