So who has had the problem that your monthly newsletters from your forum, etc. go to your members spam e-mail boxes or are deleted automagically???

I am having this issue now, and it SUCKS. Site e-mails as we know are a good tool to rope in inactive users. I also run the inactive user reminder add-on, which has no effect cause the e-mails don't ever hit the inbox.

1. if i can how do i fix it?

I went to mxtoolbox.com and did their help thing, they just referred me to email marketing companies to send my mail thru, but i would rather not have to pay someone to send a email out.

any ideas guys? i would appreciate it.

Who are you sending the email too? The best thing to do if it gets tagged as spam in say gmail is to view the email headers and see why.

However if you cannot do that I would suggest you check,

- Reverse DNS
- Blacklists (dnsstuff has a tool to check all the well known blacklists)
- SPF Records
- Headers you are sending (That includes from address, generic ones like noreply@ will get tagged as spam by some of the larger email providers such as hotmail)

I assume your last part would be for help after you searched, I would be careful with such things most of them either send you to other companys to send the email for you or send you to "good lists" were esentially you can pay a fee to send email which you shouldn't have to do anyway.

-Scott